Thursday Morning Rant…
A few years ago my sister had a terrible break-up with an alcoholic verbally/physically abusive guy. He was thrown in jail, had restraining orders, the whole nine yards. Out of concern for my sis, I offered to move in with her and my nephew to help with bills and everything. It worked out great for both of us actually, and she was still being hassled by the ex… so i wanted to be close.
She met another “winner.” My sister has terrible taste in men, but she is my sister, I love her and will always support her decisions. He came to hang out on memorial day weekend. She tells me he is going home Tuesday.. well, he never left. He has no job, he drinks too much, he is an annoying redneck asshole. We have butted heads a few times, but seeing that we both live there, an all out fight would never be the answer. My sister is a big girl (older than me) and she can do her own arguing.
I added a lines to my cell phone plan. Gave my sister my 3G iphone after i upgraded to the 3GS, got my nephew a line, and even put my mother on my plan. Bill is pretty pricey, but oh well. I find out this morning that my sister has been leaving her cell phone home for her BF to use while she goes to work??!! He has no job. So basically i am now paying for HIS cell phone. Not to mention the other things he takes advantage of that he doesnt pay for. I am infuriated right now.
I just dont undertand. I have always had trouble with women. It never has worked out for me yet. Not that i have not had opportunities. Just my luck has been rather crappy. I know there are girls out there that will say stuff like “well i tried and you weren’t interested” bla bla.. well yeah, that is the key, a mutual attraction is kind of important and i wont go half assed into a relationship just to be in a relationship. But this fucking guy.. no job, borderline alcoholic, loud, racist, user etc… can find a wonderful person like my sister. I see it all the time. She deserves better, but hates confrontation, so she puts up with the crap to avoid it.
I am nearing my wits end. I am bitter towards her, and i HATE him. If i leave, i may not speak to her for a very long time. That would kill her, but her selfish decisions have effected me in a negative way… I am so pissed.
ok, rant is over… thank you.
